We as humans would not get out of trouble and do not ever want anyone to have problems. Problems arise because of the difference or gap between what is expected by the fact that has happened. If you already have a problem then we have to deal with the wise and intelligent, so try as much as possible to avoid improper actions that have become characteristic when it is exposed to the problem.
Of us must be very confused in taking action if it was hit by problems. Then the following solution when I have to have a problem:
A. Do introspection
If there is a problem then you should be able to brsikap that I am responsible for myself. It means finding out whether the problems arise because of our mistakes or we are no donations to the problem. With this awareness is able to find solutions to problems.
2. Finding the positive side of the problem
Things that have happened but we need not regret what has happened we assess the positives and try to evoke beautiful memories so as to relieve emotions. If emotions have subsided, we will be able to think more positively so as to create new ideas and emotions are also more terekndali.
3. Willing to fight
Problems to look for a way out, not to be avoided or forgotten If we delay to solve the problem then it is likely to add new problems. Never give your opponent in the face of problems and feelings of resignation and surrender for acting like that will make us become more mature
4. Share a story
There are times when we as humans do socialization with friends, if we are facing a problem it should try to share stories. By sharing the story will slightly reduce the burden on the liver and more spacious.
5. Thinking positive
By always think positive it will encourage us to become more calm and mature. In addition there are several benefits of positive thinking are:
More aware of and understand the advantages and disadvantages of including our
Encourage to think of alternative
Increases in life stress katahanan
Dear my friend good luck with these tips so that I could sue you for more mature and calm in the face of problems